The Best Tour In Cappadocia

In Cappadocia there are two main tours available; green or red. We decided to go on the green tour mainly because it was the same price as the red but you were on it for much longer… little did we know that this was because you spend all day pretty much walking and climbing. The tour company picked us up from our hotel and we were off. Whilst driving our guide started telling us all about Cappadocia and the history of the city.

 

Cappadocia as a region was formed over 60 million years ago by the erosion of layers or lava from a few different surrounding mountains mixed in with the help of some wind and rain. Historians aren’t 100% sure on where the name actually came from but they say it’s probably from the word Katpatuka meaning land of beautiful horses in Hittite. The history of Cappadocia spawns all the way from 2500 BC Hatti culture all the way through Assyrians, Phrygians, Lydians, Romans and Christians to the Ottoman Empire where an end to the Icon movement was made. In the 3rd century, Christians came to Cappadocia which made the area a hub of education. Pressure on the christens increased in the year 303 but Cappadocia was the ideal place for them  as they were able to carve deep down into the soft volcanic rocks and create themselves  an underground safe haven against the Roman soldiers. The 4th century is known as the Fathers of Cappadocia but the importance of the region was at its peak when Leon III, emperor of Rome banned icons. This meaning that some of the people who were pro-icons started to take shelter in the region. The Iconoclasm movement lasted more than 100 years meaning these people lived underground for that long! During all of this the Arab raids also started to affect the Christians regions in Anatolia, from Armenia to Cappadocia. People escaping the invasion and coming to the region changed the styles of the churches completely. In the 11th-12th century Cappadocia was passed onto the Turks meaning the Ottoman Empire were in control. The last of the Christians migrated from Cappadocia between 1924-26 due to the exchange of Treaty of Lausanne, leaving behind beautiful architectures we can discover today.

 

There are many “must see” areas in Cappadocia for example the Fairy Chimneys which were named this by the locals to scare off visitors as they told them evil fairies would be living in the peaks of the land so they shouldn’t venture there. Locals lived in these caves up till 1952 when there was an earthquake and it was no longer safe for them to do so due to the caves being made from only volcanic ash. However more recently people have been buying the land and making it stronger to build hotels for tourists.

 

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Our first stop on the tour was a jeweller as they had discovered a special gem that reacted to the light meaning it could change to 7 different colours depending on the type of light hitting it. I thought this was really amazing and ended up buying a ring and to this day I am still amazed at how it changes colour. Inside its emerald green, sunlight makes its bright pink, dark lighting makes it amber. It’s amazing. Our second stop was just opposite, Pigeon Valley. Throughout Cappadocia you can see that all the caves have little holes in them, these were used as homes for pigeons. Up till 1960 Cappadocia made its money from potatoes and they used pigeons to fertilise them. As the region is all on volcanic ash it was very hard to grow crops so they ended up breeding pigeons only to use for fertilisation; not to eat or as messenger pigeons as some may believe. There was a tourism boom in the 60’s meaning the pigeons were no longer needed, their main income became tourism and it still is to this day.

 

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Our next stop was pretty much the main attraction. It was one of the entrances to the underground cities where people lived. This specific one was 80 stories down however they were only able to reach 12 and it was only safe for us to travel down 8. If you have any medical issues or anything id honestly not advise the green tour as there is a lot of walking and climbing. When you enter you go down one story into the “kitchen” the only way to tell that they used this area as a kitchen was that it was right by a ventilation point. As you go further and further into the caves and tunnels everything gets darker and tighter. The next floor was the winery, as it was the Christians that used this place to hide from the romans they used it to make wine, when the Turkish took over it then changed into making grape jam. We got to a point where all you could see were tunnels, our tour guide said that some of these tunnels were direct from houses, some were to be able to s=escape back outside but most were traps in case the Romans came in then they would fall and die. We came across one tiny tunnel, where you crouch down and go down 4 stories. These tunnels were about child sized; very small and tight. The tunnels were made so tiny so that in case a Roman or Arab solider got through they would kill him and he would block the path for all others. When you’re running done you have to yell to make sure no one is coming up as you can barely fit one person at a time in there. (Side note: all these tunnels and caves were carved with stones, it took decades!) When we reached the 7th floor we all felt like we were about to die which was ironic as we had reached the church; this floor was carved out to look like a cross. We went down to the final floor which surprisingly smelt pretty bad which made sense when we found out they used this area as a morgue. It was when we were here that I realised all that running down we did in the tiny tunnels meant that we had to run back up them. So for some stupid reason I decided to go first and with my bad back I felt bad for slowing down others so I literally sprinted up all the stairs, got to the top and nearly passed out. To my surprise, everyone else was taking their sweet time so I got a chance to sit outside and enjoy the boiling hot midday sun.

 

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Our next stop was lunch by the river followed straight after with a lovely mixed terrain 3.5km walk through a national park. Don’t get me wrong, it was lovely but we were all so exhausted.  We stopped off at a little water café for 15 minutes where you could walk into the stream and sit on logs which was actually amazing as the water was freezing and everyone’s feet were swollen. Whist walking you could see little caves which were churches back when the Christians lived there, all shaped like crosses and covered in beautiful paintings which still looked pretty amazing telling the story of Christ. Coming towards the end of the walk we realised we were in some sort of canyon and that our bus was already waiting for us at the top… we had to once again run up 300 stairs and catch our bus.

 

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This is when we thought we were going to be driven back to the hotel; nope. Our final destination was Selimi Monastery; the biggest one in Cappadocia. All the paths were once again tiny walk ways made from camels and at some points you had to jump from boulder to boulder. Once we were 200m up the view was amazing. We took a minute to take it in and then were left to discover and climb higher if we wished. It was just so unbelievable that people made these into schools and churches and bedrooms all by just carving into rock formations. We were given 20 minutes to explore but my friend and I decided to slowly head back as the way up was so difficult we didn’t want to have to rush our journey down. Of course, once we were at the bottom my back was killing me and I had grazed my legs all against the walls.

 

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Our tour guide then took us to a little shop where they sold all different types of Turkish delight and Lokum so we could relax a bit before we were driven back to our hotel. Even though it was exhausting and that in total we had climbed 68 floors I did actually have an amazing time! I would 100% recommend this tour but make sure you have trainers on and like gym kit… not espadrilles and a cute dress.

 

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Best Things To Eat In Istanbul

As many of you are aware I have just gotten back from Turkey and I’m already missing all the delicious food! So of course my first post about this holiday is going to be about the food. If any of you are planning a trip to Istanbul any time soon this would be really handy for you.

 

  • Nusr-Et

This is Salt Baes restaurant and Oh. My. Gosh. The food here was amazing. It is actually a bit pricey but so worth it! I can’t even explain to you how great the meat was here; imagine trying to eat rice with a large fork and pieces falling off… that’s how soft the meat was. You could literally tear it up using minimal strength.

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  • Kumpir at Ortakoy

If you do try this make sure you take some painkillers for a headache that will soon follow. You literally get yelled at by all the street vendors telling you to buy potatoes from them! For those of you that don’t know, kumpir is a jacket potato stuffed with another potato stuffed with up to 20 toppings of your choice.

 

  • Fish Sandwich at Eminonu

You walk up to a boat that’s already grilling some fish, hand over some money and they hand over to you fish stuffed inside half a loaf of bread (I’d opt for some pickled cabbage too) then you head over and just sit by the harbor watching all the boats go by.

 

  • Midyeci Ahmet

Literally the best mussels I’ve eaten. They stuff them with spiced and herbed rice with a splash of lemon juice served in buckets! There’s always a massive line as it’s such a tiny place but you can take your bucket to go and once again head over to the harbor and enjoy it there.

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  • Patso at Kadikoy

There are lots of little food stalls around the harbor and one evening I decided to try some of their food. I tried a Patso and honestly my taste buds were so happy. It’s like a giant hot dog stuffed with chips and anything else you can imagine made fresh right in front of you.

 

  • Happy Moons

Pretty much the Turkish version of TGI Fridays but about 10 times better. They have food on the menu from all over the world at very reasonable prices and massive portions!

 

  • Kofte at Sultanahmet

One of the oldest places in Istanbul with the best recipe for kofte with by the two mosques but there’s never a tourist line as from the outside it doesn’t look like much but honestly the best kofte you’ll ever have. It is a bit pricey for a small portion but so worth it.

 

  • Midpoint Aqua

We went here just for some dessert and all three of us got different things and not one of us were disappointed! Nothing was too rich or too sweet… just perfect, with a perfect view too!

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  • Simit

Simit is somewhat of a soft sesame pretzel and you should just make sure you grab one before every boat ride. It’s the best thing to enjoy at any time of day served by local vendors just outside the boat.

My Top 10 Worst Travel Experiences So Far

As most of you already know, I really enjoy travelling and seeing new places and it may seem like I’m always having a great time and I do at the end of the day but things always go wrong. ALWAYS. I’ve never really spoken about all the things that have gone wrong so here I am today, giving you the T.

 

Lithuania

Not only did the hostel we had booked get infested with bedbugs but the guy that ran it gave our beds away whilst we were out having dinner. I ended up staying up all night in the lobby waiting for someone that works there to come. When the manager eventually came at 9am we had a pretty heated argument which led to us leaving and getting our money back.

 

Rome

When we first arrived in Rome we were told to be very careful when we go out at night. That same night someone got stabbed right outside where we were staying and the following night my friend that I was with disappeared so a bunch of us were running around Rome in the rain till 2am looking for her.

 

Barcelona

Now, I’m not really afraid of flying but I can admit that my flight back from Barcelona was terrifying. As we were accenting after take-off all the lights went off and a bright flash consumed the plane and before we knew it we were dropping down. We were later told that we were nearly hit by lighting and that for the rest of the flight we will be experiencing very bad turbulence. You know it’s bad when the flight attendants start to panic.

 

Edinburgh

We decided to take the train up from Kings Cross and after spending all day trying to change out train times (my friend missed her previous train from Devon) all the trains from Kings Cross ended up being cancelled for the weekend. I eventually flew to Edinburgh a year later.

 

Antalya

Half of us ended up getting on a different flight going to the same destination only an hour later, however we didn’t know that Antalya airport had two different terminals and didn’t have signal so we couldn’t call each other to find where the other was. We ended up spending hours trying to find each other and it was in the middle of the night when we eventually arrived home.

 

Budapest

Booking flights after work seems like a great idea till you land in a country where no one speaks English nor is willing to help and it’s late at night and snowing like there’s no tomorrow and you’re just walking around in circles trying to find your accommodation.

 

Copenhagen

One of the main reasons I wanted to go to Copenhagen was to visit Tivoli Gardens; I was so excited… turns out they were closed meaning we had ruined our whole day as we planned everything around it.

 

Morocco

If I could change one thing from this trip I would make sure we had a guy with us just so we felt safer. We kept getting followed and touched and things were yelled at us just because we were two girls walking alone. It’s not like we were being disrespectful; we were both completely covered and kept our heads down as we walked. There were girls there in short shorts and mini dresses but nothing was said or done to them because they had a guy with them.

 

Dublin

Everything was going great, we were there for St Patricks Day then all of a sudden there was a storm and no one was allowed out. We had no idea if we were going to be about to make our flight back to London or if it would be safe at all.

 

Cologne

So whilst we were in Cologne my cousin told us about a cute little town just outside with a really nice castle on top of a hill. Obviously we wanted to travel here. We spent ages trying to get there and when we did everything was shut, it was the evening and the town seemed dead. Creepy dead. Everything looked perfect, perfect houses, perfect paths… but it felt like we were honestly about to get murdered.

 

xx

 

Everything That Is Wrong With Love Island 2018

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Okay so I’m one of those “sad” people that have been watching this years Love Island. Don’t get me wrong, I normally wouldn’t be ashamed of my guilty pleasures but this years season has just been awful! Like, I can’t believe I’ve still sat and watched every episode. Lets all just say what we’re thinking out loud; Love Island hit its peak last year and will never be as great.

  • They’ve taken away the smoking area which I guess is good as it “promoted” smoking but come on! That’s where all the gossip used to take place! Now they can go outside the villa one at a time to smoke.
  • Its reality TV, we all know it’s staged but we don’t like to notice how staged it actually is and this year it’s literally been shoved into our faces. Every evictee has come and mentioned how staged it all is, surely it should be in their contracts not to talk about all that?
  • They don’t really show the “woohoo” moments anymore like Sam and Frankie’s time in the hideaway or anything like that. We’ve pretty much only seen what Megan is up to. If they showed what everyone was doing then Megan wouldn’t have gotten as much hate as she did.
  • Way too much product placement. Its like looking through the Missguided website and not being able to close the page.
  • Adam.
  • The producers and editors have left out way too much. I recently watched a video with loads of cut out footage like games and chats between islanders and honestly they were so funny I don’t get why they didn’t make it to the final cut of the show. It showed the contestants in a different light and showed how funny they actually are.
  • We found out this year that the contestants have a day off where they leave the villa and probably just hang out somewhere else and we miss all the gossip from that. I always thought they had to stay in the villa at all times. What’s next? Big Brother contestants aren’t really in the house the whole time either?
  • They’ve manipulated with the way views vote. What happened to Megan? She literally disappeared off the screen for a few days and turned out not to be most hated anymore. They’ve only been showing people that will get a response from the viewers so the voting goes the way the producers want.
  • Some contestants knew each other from the outside but never mentioned knowing each other. Alexandra has photos with Kaz and Megan!
  • They had the same games, challenges and activities as last season. Come on, get a bit more imaginative.
  • The final week was rushed! In the last few episodes they’ve literally had like a challenge or event each day and the meet the parents episode was the day before the final??!? They should have spread it out a bit more. Why was it so rushed?

All in all I am so disappointed in this years series and I’m sure I’m not the only one!

xx

10 Types of people you need to remove from your life right now

Our lives are full of different types of people; some great, some not so great. We for some stupid reason pay a lot more attention to the terrible people. If you’re out with a group of friends and one says you look cute and one says that the top you’re wearing doesn’t suit you. You’re not going to be wearing that top again. I know this is a small example but you get what I mean. Below are ten types of people that we really need to leave behind to become a better us.

 

People who are nice to your face, but mean behind your back. There’s no absolute way of getting rid of these people but you can stop playing their game. As an adult, that means being pleasant, not engaging in drama and perhaps pretending they don’t actually exist.

Judgemental people who can’t stand being judged. These people don’t want to be like everyone else, and they don’t want to be judged for it. However, they then go and judge others for not conforming to also being different. Like, if you want to be unique, that’s great but don’t go and hate on people for being basic if you don’t want them to judge you for being extra.

Negative, angry people who complain about their situation but never do anything about it. Hate your job? Apply for a new one. Not thrilled with your friends? Go meet different people. Unhappy with your relationship? End it. I absolutely hate hearing people complain about things, but never do anything to change their situations. Don’t let someone else’s negativity make you believe otherwise.

Anyone who doubts you. If you have a dream, don’t let anyone tell you it can’t happen. Instead of focusing on ‘proving these people wrong,’ just remove them from your life. You should only surround yourself with people who believe in you.

People who are too cliquey. Cliques are for when you’re in school. Honestly if you know people that are in cliques just get them out your life now because you know they’re not actually grown up and they’ll be so hard to introduced to new friends without your friends feeling like they’re being judged.

People who whine. The only “whine” you should be dealing with is the one that comes in a bottle… or box. I’m not judging. 

People who don’t reciprocate whatever you’re giving.If someone isn’t giving you back what you’re giving them—love, free food, friendship, even a text message—say goodbye to these people. You don’t deserve to be the one always making the first move. You don’t deserve to be the one always spending money. You don’t deserve to be the one always cooking dinner. End your one-sided relationships. Relationships between people are a two-way street.

Suck ups who you can tell are being fake.Instead of wondering how so-and-so got promoted, let’s shine the light off them and focus on ourselves. Instead of feeling like so-and-so is being a little *TOO* nice, let’s accept that this person is actually being fake. No one is *that* nice. As humans we all have the ability to see through the nonsense. Take advantage of it.

Anyone who is holding you back.Whether its a friend, family member, significant other or co-worker; if you feel like you’ve been stuck in the same place with someone forever, you need to ask yourself: are they holding you back? Are they keeping you from advancing in your career? Are they keeping you from getting your finances together? Are they keeping you from growing up? Life is going to keep moving whether you like it or not, so it’s time to stop letting anything or anyone hold you back.

People that don’t respect you. Read this as if clapping emojis were in between each word: You don’t need anyone in your life who doesn’t respect you.

 

Arda xx

Valentines playlist- loved up & singleton

Loved Up Playlist

At Last – Etta James

When A Man Loves A Woman – Michael Bolton

Cant Help Falling In Love – Elvis Presley

Strangers In The Night – Frank Sinatra

Your Song – Elton John

All Of Me – John Legend

Make You Feel My Love – Adele

Constellation – Tom Odell

The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face – Roberta Flack

Come Away With Me – Norah Jones

 

Singleton Playlist

Dancing On My Own- Robyn

I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor

Ridin’ Solo – Jason Derulo

Since U Been Gone – Kelly Clarkson

Shout Out To My Ex – Little Mix

You Give Love A Bad Name – Bon Jovi

Put Your Records On – Corinne Bailey Rae

Same Old Love – Selena Gomez

Take A Bow – Rihanna

Its Not Right But Its Okay – Whitney Houston

 

10 Things to avoid on Valentines Day

Only 1 day left till V-Day. the day we were all excited about in school but grown to hate as we get older. Todays post is going to be about what you should avoid doing on this day and what presents you should defiantly not get your significant other. If you’ve got any of these planned at least you have about 20 hours to fix up!

 

-Don’t treat them to a gym membership.

-Don’t buy her a stuffed toy unless you’re both 12.

-Don’t attempt to woo her with a chat up line.

-Don’t get their name tattooed on you.

-Don’t buy them clothes unless you’re sure on their size.

-Don’t have bad breath.

-Don’t make vouchers for hugs or massages.

-Don’t buy her anything that’s celebrity endorsed.

-Don’t not buy her chocolates because she said she was on a diet.

-DONT FORGET IT!

 

Other than that, hope you have a great day!

 

Arda xx

Non-stop days in London

As you might have noticed my cousin came to visit for a week and I have never been so tired. She arrived just gone midnight on Friday and that’s when our adventure began. Quite a few of you have seen the photographs we uploaded and asked about specific places we went to so I thought why not just do a post about it. My hectic week with Duygu

Friday

As promised I went to greet her at the airport and being the person that I am I made her a sign. Her flight was delayed so whenever passengers came out I held the sign up hoping she would be one. When she finally came out I was folding the sign upside down. Typical. After a few handfuls of pistachios we decided to call it a night and prepared ourselves for the week ahead.

Saturday

Duygu is as basic as me me so everywhere we were planning on visiting was 100% Insta-worthy. Our first stop was Peggy Porschen. We stood in the rain for about an hour taking photos outside and waiting in line to get inside. We could have just taken photos and left like all the other girls but Duygu loves to eat so we were staying for the cake. Our next stop was German Gymnasium by Kings Cross station. If you’ve never been there I highly recommend it and make sure you go to the bathroom and check it out, the aesthetic is on point. We waiting till the rain had slowed down so we could head off to Camden Town because I ruined her last experience there by throwing up. After taking a few photos by the sign she started running through the crowd towards the Chinese food. Just after lunch. It’s safe to say we were exhausted and decided to go home and get into our Missy Empire matching tshirts whist she thought about what she could eat next.

Sunday

After having breakfast we set off into the snow to ride the Emirates cable carts. Luckily the lack of bright sunshine made the lighting in the cart perfect for a few photos. Or a Photoshoot. We then went to the O2 to bowl but the wait was too long so we ended up leaving after Duygu had a go at the VR escape room. Our next stop was the London Eye but to take a cute photo we had to go to Waterloo Bridge. At the point Duygu realised that we had the same clothes on from the previous photos and that just wasn’t acceptable so we swapped. We were planning on going to the aquarium after but the penguins were asleep so we ended up wasting so much money at the arcade in exchange for sweets. For dinner we went to an all you can eat buffet which I personally thought was perfect for her and she literally tried everything.

Monday

Day of rest

Tuesday

We met up after work and the first thing she said to me was that she was starving and hadn’t eaten in an hour. We ended up going to Pizza Pilgrims and she tired her first garlic bread and fell in love. After stuffing our faces we both decided that we needed to do some much needed exercise so we went down to Bounce to play some ping pong. Half an hour later she said she really wanted some chocolate so I introduced her to mini eggs. She then got 3kgs to take back to Turkey with her.

Wednesday

For tis day I had to take annual leave from work. We started off by having a quick breakfast at maccys before actually going for breakfast. Our first stop of the day was Coppa Club by Tower Bridge. I had booked us into their igloos to have breakfast with a view and obviously to do a quick Photoshoot. After breakfast we had a quick stop by the bridge to take a few photos before heading up to Sky Garden. Duygu has a Instagram page where she posts nursery rhymes for kids and whilst we were in the perfect setting we decided to film one there… and did another shoot. I realised that she hadn’t actually done any shopping since being here so we popped into NewLook and my gosh was that a mistake. Nearly two hours later we set off for lunch at the Ivy City and luckily they had space in the conservatory… where we proceeded to take photos. Next up was mini golf. We went into Junkyard Golf and instead of playing one course we played three and it was actually pretty fun! It was getting pretty late when we left and it was clear the Duygu was now ill but this wasn’t going to stop her from running to Softserve Society and grabbing her favourite charcoal icecream.

Thursday

I was fully exhausted and had no plans to see Duygu but she guilt tripped me into seeing her and helping her pack. She had over 5kg of chocolate to take back!

So now she’s gone back and I can go back to not eating and not running around London like crazy. I can’t wait to see her in Istanbul so I can do to her exactly what she did to me.

Arda xx

Reasons why you should give up on your New Years resolutions

I think we can all agree that January is the worst month of the year. Especially the first two weeks. It’s cold, there’s nothing to look forward to, commuting is terrible, people are trying to eat healthy so no one wants to do anything fun and the gym is full of people that are trying fitness routines only to fail in three weeks. O don’t understand why just because its a new year people think its time to start fresh. You can start fresh on any given day.

 

If you set a date of January 1st to start working towards a goal you’re already screwed.

If you really wanted to achieve this goal you would have started working towards it before January 1st, people who really want things go for them right away. They don’t say “Meh, I’ll keep spiralling out of control till January 1st”. New year, same you. People don’t change. When you really want something you’ll try to achieve it as soon as possible.

 

If you think making a resolution is going to make 2018 great you’re lying to yourself.

A year is a full 365 days, there’s no chance that you’re going to have a good year with no obstacles if you accomplish your New Years resolutions. Every year is a rollercoaster full of ups and downs that you just cant control and just have to ride it out. Its okay to take rest days from working out, its okay to have cheat days and its okay to cancel plans. if you tell yourself you have to be this new you who’s so put together in 2018 and don’t give yourself breaks you’re going to crash ands burn and go back to your old ways in a few weeks.

 

If you post about your resolutions you going to make people feel bad and dislike you.

Like, its really great you’re going to be vegan for a month but I’m sat here eating my fried chicken and I don’t need you shoving pictures of your super grain bowl and cauliflower steak in my face, making me feel bad for my poor food decision.

 

If you have multiple resolutions, they probably all contradict each other.

If you say you’re going to save money and say you’re going to go to more fitness classes then that’s impossible. Fitness classes are expensive so you cant save money and attend them at the same time.

 

Life can get in the way of your resolutions.

It happens. What if you’re resolution is to save money and an unexpected bill arrives? what if you have a fitness resolution and you hurt your back? That’s you gone for a few months. You’ll be more disappointed in yourself for not being able to stick to your resolution even though there’s nothing you can do about it.

 

If you give up something you and your friends like to do then they’re not going to want to hang out.

Say you give up drinking, you’re not going to want to go out every weekend and if you do then you might not have as much fun being surrounded by your drunk friends. Your friends will start to realise this and not invite you places because they know you wont be enjoying yourself.

 

You probably wont be happy until you stop trying to change and accept yourself.

Life is about accepting the changes around you, not changing the person you are.

 

Arda xx

 

 

 

 

Transitioning from your teens to your 20’s

Sometimes the transition from your teens into your 20’s can be nice and smooth but sometimes it just hits you. Hits you hard.

 

We see the value of money differently.

As a teenager when you unexpectedly got £10 from your parents you could sit down and plan exactly how you would spend it but now even if you found £5 in your pocket before you get a chance to even think of what to spend it on, its gone. You’ve spent it.

 

We’re kinda lost.

We’re all kinda wondering around wondering what were supposed to be doing and whether were doing it right. I have a job… Is it what I’m meant to be doing with my life? is it okay to live with my parents? How do you make a healthy dinner? How much should I be spending on food?

 

We don’t know who to trust.

Was that person being nice and sincere or did they have an ulterior motive? Should I tell me co-worker about my job interview? is that person judging me right now?

 

We’re losing friends.

sometimes we just cant be there for people the way that they need us to be anymore. We’re quickly learning who’s growing up with us and who’s growing apart.

 

We have to re-learn our bodies.

Eating too much sugar will do what to my skin? How much coffee is too much? I need to be able to function with only a few hours of sleep?

 

We’re all a bit of a mess.

We realise that no one has their life all sorted. It may seem like this person has it all together but maybe they cry in the bathroom at work. You may hate your current job but it will make you appreciate the next one even more. After 3 years of studying at university we may then realise its not the path we want to take. In our 20’s we rediscover who we are and who we want to be.

 

But, I reckon that the only real difference between being a teenager and being in your 20’s is that when you’re a teenager and you ask for help. everyone is willing to help you, or lend an ear; they all understand that its a “tough age”. However, now that we are in our twenties we are told to just “figure it out” and to “move on”.

 

Arda xx